Spring 2018 Movie Lessons

Warning: These contain spoilers.

Every Day

1. If your boyfriend has a spontaneous personality change and spends the day with you as a funny, attentive, sensitive non-smoker, he may be temporarily under the influence of a more evolved soul who’s borrowing his body.

2. If you are a body-traveling spirit who wants to get together with a girl you fancy fast before your parents force you to go on a car trip, it’s best to avoid inhabiting a body of someone who never exercises.

3. Even without knowing that your boyfriend is under the control of a time-traveling spirit, your mom will freak out when she discovers that you’ve been spending an unsupervised weekend with said boyfriend at the family lake house.

A Wrinkle in Time

4. Bringing along a guy you barely know on a quest to save the planet is fine as long as your younger brother vouches for his “diplomacy” skills, he says he likes your hair, and he’s cute!

5. If you meet three odd women who dress like community theater actresses and/or homeless people, but have the ability to make your backyard ripple like a wave, they’re probably sincere about wanting to escort you on a magical quest.

6. If you teleport to a beach on an evil planet and sample the cuisine there, don’t be  surprised if it still tastes like sand.

Ready Player One

7. Life in the future may be so hopeless that multiple gamers will be willing to enact the same fatal scenario repeatedly, even though it hasn’t a chance in hell of moving them up a coveted level.

8. If you’re a socially awkward computer genius who is dating your colleague’s love interest, creating a game which enacts your dilemma might not help too much in real life – but will entertain future gamers determined to win the grand prize.

9. Virtual reality moves pretty fast – but literally going backwards can be the key to advancing a level.


10. If you can’t quite remember driving off a bridge the night before, submerging yourself in a bathtub of water will do the trick and jog your memory.

11. If you’re a public figure and need privacy to make a condolence call, you can always hijack the local chief of police’s office.

12. If you’re going to make a heartfelt speech to your constituents, make sure your gestures are scripted by cue cards to be extra moving.

Isle of Dogs

13. If you’re a dog on a trash-filled island, it’s still best to take vote with your pack before doing such things as fighting for a food package, helping a child who’s crashed onto the island, etc.

14. Once you’ve survived an accident that leaves you orphaned plus an unauthorized solo plane crash, pulling a propeller blade from the side of your head won’t faze you a bit.

15. Haiku can move even the hardest hearts, if you insert one into an impassioned speech to save your city’s pets from banishment.

A Quiet Place

16. If you and your family find themselves in a post-apocalyptic world populated by monsters attracted to sound, you should just rely on a system of lights to signal danger, rather than build a shelter where they can’t easily sneak up on you.

17. Even if you live in a world where monsters may try to kill you at anytime, corn silos can be potentially lethal places for kids, too, so keep something they can grab if they fall in handy.

18. When looting a drugstore with young children in said world, it’s best to double check to make sure they haven’t snuck any noisy toys with them before you leave. You might also want to keep a closer eye on them as you walk back home.

I Feel Pretty

19. To avoid a humiliating discussion about spin class shoe size, in front of all the skinny women waiting to get theirs, it might be best to bring your own.

20. Falling off an exercise bike might turn out to be more disturbing for the gym attendant than you if you fall under a spell and suddenly are convinced that you have become drop dead gorgeous, rather than merely bruised and in shock.

21. Even the relative of the girl who defeats you in a bikini contest will envy your boyfriend if you execute your moves with enough chutzpah.


22. If you’re a school administrator dealing with the pregnant mother of one of your problem students, avoid diplomatic adjectives like “quirky” like the plague, or face a meltdown the size of Texas.

23. Even a “bad” mom will already have every ingredient in the house she needs to make fancy cupcakes on the spur of the moment for her son’s kindergarten the next day (including food coloring in every shade of the rainbow); she just won’t have the energy to make them – at least for awhile.

24. Thomas Wolfe was right when he said you can’t go home again – especially not to the hipster pad you had in your twenties.


25. If you’re hired to clean a spoiled playboy’s yacht, and he orders you to bring him a mango, you should probably feign deafness rather than engage in a knock-down drag-out argument.

26. If you open your home to an adult male amnesiac stranger, two days without any major alarms, including the stranger spontaneously bringing home frozen yogurt, is enough to let him sleep on the couch rather than the shed – even if you have three daughters.

27. Even if your temporary amnesia abates to the point where you can successfully hold down a second job delivering pizza by car – a task which requires good reflexes and judgment – you will still have no idea your wife and kids aren’t yours – and the issue of your license will never come up.

Life of the Party

28. If you are going to inform your wife that you’re having an affair and selling the house you’ve lived in since you got married, using words like “facilitate,” won’t keep her from dissolving into anger, protests and tears.

29. If you are a middle-aged housewife, and you attend a college party, de-frumping yourself calls for bold measures, i.e. using a random hairbrush in the frat bathroom.

30. If you find yourself saddled with a roommate who never goes outside and is uber-creepy, it pays not to antagonize her because she might wind up saving the day big time and keeping you in college. She could even turn out to be the cousin of a mega-pop star!


Movie Review: Tully

There’s a scene in “Tully,” where Charlize Theron brings her youngest son (Asher Miles Fallica) who has “atypical” special needs to his new school, and he has a meltdown in the boys’ room. Charlize, while gripping the bassinet of her new baby, is trying to soothe him – when what to their frazzled eyes should appear but an ordinary looking man who approaches them in the hall and suggests that they “be trees,” leading them through a series of yoga poses which brings things back to “normal.”

It’s yet another unexpected moment in a movie full of oddball ones that still manage to be realistic and black-humored. And for Charlize, who plays a mom of two young children, including one on the way when the film (written by Diablo Cody and directed by Jason Reitman) opens, it’s yet another small nugget of advice that will help her on her journey back to feeling like a competent woman who can deal with whatever life decides to throw at her.

Most of the sage advice, however, comes from Charlize’s new night nanny Tully (odd name explained later; played by Mackenzie Davis), who is hired with financial help from her brother (Mark Duplasse). Her husband (Ron Livingston) is willing to help with the kids when he’s home but travels a lot for his job (maybe he should see a hypnotist), leaving Charlize exhausted when it comes to dealing with three kids’ needs around the clock. Now she’s reduced to serving frozen pizza for dinner and permitting her daughter (Lia Frankland) to text at the table, things that makes her worry that a visit from Child Protective Services is right around the corner. So she reluctantly agrees to hire Mackenzie, and soon things aren’t back to the way they used to be – they’re way better.

Mackenzie, who is Mary Poppins without the umbrella and the carpetbag, and despite her odd assortment of trivia and New Age philosophy, soon charms her way into Charlize’s life. She bakes Minion cupcakes, she gets Charlize exercising again, she gives her advice on how to jumpstart her sex life, she does it all. But like that other famous nanny, she can’t stick around forever.

Tully” has a twist of sorts –  it’s like “Mary Poppins” meets “The Sixth Sense.” It’s also a no-holds-barred look at motherhood that we seldom see in Hollywood movies. (It can also be shown alongside “Chappaquiddick” for a D.A.R.E. program if those are still around.) People like Tully are kind of like the magic feather in “Dumbo” – they’re meant to help us think we can fly, when perhaps we could all along and just needed a temporary boost.